How to Get Back with Your Ex Girlfriend
How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend
What most men don’t realize is that it is very easy to win a woman’s heart over and over again. Women, unlike men, don’t tend to move on very quickly, and, even if the breakup is the woman’s own idea, she will still probably miss you for a long time after that. If you broke up with your girlfriend or even if she was the one who called it quits, no matter the reason, you can still win her back very easily and start over again. Here are ways on how to get back with your ex girlfriend.
Be There For Her
For almost every woman, her boyfriend is also her best friend, the person whom she confides in and the one she goes to in times of need. When things ended between you two, she lost a very close friend and she probably misses having someone to share her problems with. You can use this to your advantage, as she is very likely to agree if you suggest remaining friends. Even if the breakup was bitter and she does not want to be friends, convince her that you want to be there for her. Listen to her, be there for her, support her and show your concern for her, and before you know it, she will realize she needs you back.
Do Not Make Her Pity You
A girl will never be attracted to a man she pities. If you make crying phone calls in the middle of the night or send her long and emotional rants in emails, she will start pitying you, and very soon, she may even start loathing you. While you should make it perfectly clear that you want her back and that you cannot do without her, don’t go as far as making her see you as someone who is whiny and weak. Women are always attracted to strong men who can handle any issue with maturity, confidence and grace so be that guy to attract her.
Focus On Her Criticism
Think back to all the things she said when breaking-up. It is a great possibility that she meant every hurtful thing that she said to you. Focus on what she said and instead of getting defensive or justifying your actions, work on your differences. If, for instance, she badgers you about your physical appearance, then do something about it, as long as you both know it won’t harm yourself or anyone. Start dressing up well, most especially when you will be around her. When you show her that you are working on her critique and that you are making an effort on it, she will not only notice it but she may also regret leaving.
When planning on how to get back with your ex girlfriend, while it is strongly recommended that you do not suffocate her or overdo anything, flowers and chocolates once in a while may still do wonders. If she has made it excessively clear for now that she does not want to get back together, do subtle little things without being overly romantic and make sure not to freak her or her friends out. If you meet for coffee, pay for it and go the extra mile and order her favorite cake. She may not realize it at the moment but she will, eventually. With your gestures that make her feel she is special and that she is being taken care of, before you know you both know it, she is drawn back to you.