How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
If you have tried every moving on tactic and failed, if you cannot get over the past and if you just cannot stop missing her, you might be wondering how to get your ex girlfriend back. This, surprisingly, is quite an easy task, given that you make all the right moves at all the right times. Just because she broke up with you does not mean it is over for good. Chances are, she is missing you as much as you missing her. Here are a few simple ways to re-ignite that spark and win her back.
The first thing you need to do is to stop smothering her. If she shows no inclination to talk to you, give her time to cool down. Calling her at odd timings and crying will not fix anything; you just might end up disgusting her straight into the arms of a stronger man. This does not mean display of weakness or vulnerability is not okay, it just means you need to time them perfectly. If you just broke up and the breakup was bitter, she is probably still really angry and any clinging or suffocating at your end might drive her away for good. Drop her casual messages from time to time to let her know you still care, but let her calm down until she is ready for a reasonable discussion. Do not stalk her or send her gifts. Now is not the right time. In other words, do not reduce her to pitying you. Once a girl starts pitying you, she will never find you attractive.
Women are complicated creatures and most often they say one thing when they mean the complete opposite. If you know your ex well, and you probably do, you will understand when she needs you around even though she is telling you to leave her alone. Often, a woman will pretend she wants to be left alone just to see if the guy cares enough to chase after her. While you give her the space she needs, do not appear to be completely detached or cold, she might turn her back on you for good. Instead, be there for her whenever she needs you, which can happen sooner or later. Comfort her if she gives you the chance and she will definitely start wanting you back.
Something most men underestimate is the intensity of a woman’s jealousy. Sometimes, to make a woman realize she still loves you, you need to make her jealous. Don’t do anything obvious or harmful, just go on with your life and be social. Find hobbies, make friends and stay in your ex girlfriend’s sight, whether on an online social network or through mutual friends. Her paranoia and jealousy will make her see a potential partner in every female friend you hang out with and this will drive her into confessing whatever, if something, she is holding back. Remember to be completely civil and polite whenever you happen to bump into her and be kind. If she was with you, chances are you were not just her boyfriend but also her closest friend and she probably misses confiding in you. Give her the chance to confide or pour her heart out and before you know it you will have her back.