Get Him Back Secrets
Sometimes when you’re in the process of breaking up with a guy, even breathing can hurt. You may think you’ll never live through the overwhelming emotions. But you will, even though you can’t bring yourself to believe that now. However, if you aren’t ready to let go and you think there’s something in the relationship worth salvaging, here is some “get him back” advice that may help.
Keep these tips in mind when you launch your plan to reunite with your man.
1. First and foremost, be yourself. A lot of people, usually women, try very hard to please their partners. Of course that can be good, but only to a point. Unfortunately people-pleasing can lead to a loss of your sense of self, and you don’t want that.
The loss of self may in fact be one of the causes of your relationship trouble. You’ve been trying so hard to show your man just how much you love him that you’ve lost who you really are — the woman he fell in love with in the first place.
Think back. You were an independent, fun, happy woman when you met him, right? Have you changed into a clingy, needy woman who relies on her man for her happiness? If that’s the case, its likely he feels smothered — or bored.
So look inside and relocate your true self, then prove to him that you’re still that amazing woman he fell in love with.
2. Stay away from him. If he left the relationship, then he isn’t interested in being with you. But his feelings may change, especially if you give him a chance to miss you. If your smothering was his reason for breaking up with you, constantly calling him will just reinforce his position. So give this new approach some time, and give your man some space.
3. Let him come to you. If there’s going to be a reconciliation, he should show some responsibility and initiate it — you mustn’t be blamed for all the problems that caused the breakup. Discuss issues openly and honestly with him, and be sure that both of you are trying to repair the problems. Remember, it takes two people to sustain a relationship.
There you go, a few easy-to-follow get-him-back tips. Start following this advice today. You may get him back, but even if you don’t you should feel happier about your situation, more confident and worthy of love — all of which will help you to get on with your life.